Love Every Day

I’ve started a New Years’ resolution that I’d like to recommend along with your usual practice of prayer.  Begin your day by praying this aloud:

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophecy is imperfect; but when the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall understand fully, even as I have been fully understood. So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

This is the famous 13th chapter of Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians. You’ve heard it at almost every wedding you’ve attended, but it wasn’t written for couples. Paul is instructing the Corinthians in how to be church – how to honor every member of the community. He was showing them “the more excellent way.”

The purpose of Paul’s letter to the Corinthians was to address divisions in the church. Given the current environment in church and world, this letter is as relevant as ever. And memorizing, internalizing, and practicing this perfect love will have an impact on our relationships that will surely leave no room for division.

Commanding Presence

After 100 years of construction and the blessing of the recently finished ‘Trinity Dome’ on December 8, The Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, DC is now complete. Walking in, one is at once struck by the towering mosaic of Christ in the north apse. One of the largest mosaics of Jesus in the world, it is titled ‘Christ in Majesty’.  The rendering depicts Christ as a muscular figure with outstretched arms and an earnest gaze – His is a commanding presence.

This is the Jesus we sing about and preach about on Christ the King Sunday and the first Sunday in Advent: He who will come and reign in glory. Lo, He comes with clouds descending!

But now we have taken a turn in Advent and await the Savior who seems far from commanding at this point. He is nestled snugly in the womb of a virgin. His breath is her breath, His meals are her meals, when she moves He goes with her. Jesus cannot live without Mary. He is protected by her, comforted by her, nurtured by her – she is the commanding presence in his young life.

All kings start in the womb, but this king is God. So not just our king, but our God becomes dependent and vulnerable. Think about that. He who was and is and is to come, He who is I Am, He who comes in majesty and glory is reliant upon a very young woman.

Advent can be too busy, too noisy. This solemn time of meditation on God’s descent can easily be eclipsed by things flashing at us. And though the lights and festivities are delightful and welcome, our souls compete for time and space and silence. The fluorescence of Advent should perhaps be more like the quiet darkness of the womb. Let all mortal flesh keep silent.

So may we all seek silence in these remaining days to ponder God’s trust in Mary and renew our own dependency on Him: To dwell in the womb of God and breathe with Him, be nourished by Him, and move with Him – to let the Christ Child be the commanding presence in our lives.